To Make a Guy Commit - Win His Heart

Do you think a guy can commit to a relationship with you? Do you ever get tired of relationships that do not last? Do you easily get intimidated when you cannot win a guy's heart and you are already in love with him? Fortunately, you don't have to force him to make a commitment. Just continue reading and you will learn how you can finally win a guy's heart and make him commit as well.

Use assertiveness.

You can be assertive but not too aggressive. To differentiate this, an aggressive woman pushes a guy too far and too fast, while an assertive woman is just making a guy realize what he is already thinking of doing. Guys are not really into settling down at once even with a woman he is quite fond of. It is not because they do not want a secure relationship or that they don't want just one woman. The truth is they want to take things slow to check if a relationship can actually stand the test of time.

Once he feels that you are willing to be there for him no matter what, he will realize that you are a woman who he can spend time with for longer. Do not start pressuring him into a relationship but try to get to know him better and have him get to know you as well. Be involved with his friends, his activities. This is a way of being assertive so that you will certainly win his heart and finally have him commit to you.

Be optimistic.

Do not wait on him in every aspect. Do not wait for him to call then nag about it when he finally does. You cannot complain or pass judgment on him if you want him to be with you. The more you criticize him, the more he will lose interest to be around you. Instead, be optimistic with him. Do fun things together, something that will excite both your interests. When you think positive around him, he will always look forward to be with you and sooner than you think, you will just be surprised that he will initiate having a commitment with you because you already won his heart naturally.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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